What are your resolutions for 2010?
01/01/2010 20:31i have not the interest to argue about my opinion just accept it .. if i would want to get some changes i would just do em but not cause its some random new year
01/01/2010 21:31i will give people a chance to beat me @ kz.
and more seriously, i will try to give people a chance to beat me @ kz
Top5 @ fitnessfive 2010, that's it. Now write that down!
01/01/2010 23:15girlfriend ..
Originally posted by perdogirlfriend ..
damn man ur honest, bow!
lol ndr u seriously made this topic in the middle of the night? dont u party on new year ? XD
i wanna get my full points on school
02/01/2010 02:01(edited 02/01/2010 02:03)Originally posted by akMlol ndr u seriously made this topic in the middle of the night? dont u party on new year ? XD
i wanna get my full points on school
Nop, I already partied for Xmas,
December was already a month full of party for me...
First holidays, my birthday, xmas... I even lost myself in Paris rofl
This time I just wanted to be quiet with my gf at home, just a uber lunch, champagne, and both of us... :)
I couldn't sleep after that, that's why I was sneaking around on the computer :D
Probably work harder on school, get a job maybe.. atleast for summer, stop playing cs at all, make friends. :)
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on my gim you can see like 100 new members, just for january xD they all say, this year im gonna continue for sure, one month later there are 10 or 15 left... xD
- Do everything I want, because I get 18 this year (May).
Originally posted by kz[aHazard]
akkord i feel bad for you if you dont aspire to become a better person, even if it never fully translates in reality.
thats the biggest bullshit i've red in 2010.
being realistic with saying that its a crappy thing which starts again every year and gets hyped by a lot of people has nothing to do with not to admire becoming a better person. i think its understandable that such random and hyped things as those new years resolutions, and for example also christmas, michael jackson's death and chuck norris facts are totally hyped by a lot of people with generates a giant overuse that ends up in annoying people, so they find it boring and crappy.
at this point i want to say that i am so +1ing akkord's statement, nobody couldve said it better.
Originally posted by kz[aHazard]sometimes wishing you could do something better / be someone better gives you the motivation to make a change, however small the changes may be. Cause even though you may not notice it, maybe the fact that resolutions shift your perspective slightly causes you to change your behavioral habits slightly - even to an extent you dont notice.
to have the attitude that you MIGHT leaves it open to possibility.
Hazard, setting a specified point for changing stuff as the personality or the behaviour is a bad thing and im sure you know that. its been proven that saying "im gonna stop smoking on xx/xx/xxx but for now im gonna roll another joint rofl" just makes it a lot harder, thats a psychological self-discipnline thing, i cant say more to that, but im sure its understandable.
Originally posted by kz[aHazard]to have the attitude that you wont change, means you wont.
i recall the fact that Akkord didnt say he wont change, he just mentoined that mostly all the people are talking bullshit and at the end they wont really change. thats how i understood it.
but even if we would argue about the statement "I will not change myself in the future." we would get the fact that the person who said that has no will of changing. now, i think, that "argument" is actually enough of an explenation why he says that he wont change, but ill explain that deeper: i think we can trivialise that the person who said that sentence has already thought about that New Years Changes, i dont need to explain that. now that means, even after thinking about it, he decides to stay as he is and doesnt force himself to change. i might say if you're forcing yourself to change in such a major thing as the personality that doesnt end up good because its not going out from your real will, means, there will always be some things leftover. at this point its impossible to say whats wrong or right, staying yourself and accept that, or force yourself to change because of the arbitrarily created ethical rules and standards that are dominating in our anonymus mass-civilication with some things leftover in the back of your mind: i cant say which of those two ways is the better one in general.
okay i couldnt manage it to stay at generals points, so i think ive gone too far in this ethical personality stuff but i think its possible to assume my statement for the minor changes too.
tldr -> +1 Akkord
hi chosen.
chosen people change all the time. all it takes is a catch up with an old friend to see that. people grow up, they mature, and they see things differently
- tbh i didnt get the point of what you were trying to say, it seemed to me in the second paragraph that you were saying "setting yourself goals to change is stupid cause u'll just fail."
i think new years is great, its always good every so often to think introspectively and search for things you could improve about yourself - nobody is perfect and YES i believe that people can change if they set their mind to it and shift their attitude.
i just think its lame that these cynics sit back with their negative attitude trying to bring everybody else down by saying 'your goals are stupid and dont bother cause you wont do it.'
well, i guess its true that alot of people cant stick to their convictions and slip back into old habits, but not everybody, and thats where attitude comes in.
i think the main reason alot of people dont stick to resolutions is because the only reason they make them is because its a social convention. However, if that person truly thinks they need to change, and commits to doing so, it can happen
and the last thing they need is people like akkord and yourself saying dont bother cause you will fail.
just because you might not have much self-discipline, doesnt warrant the same in others.
gl to everyone in achieving what you set out to. dont listen to people like akkord and chosen, if u think u can change DO IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! yEEEEERRRPpp~
02/01/2010 10:53Originally posted by ndRThis time I just wanted to be quiet with my gf at home, just a uber lunch, champagne, and both of us... :)
Fucking into the new year is quite nice :D
my only resolution is to get my attention for hammer back again ^^
My goal on new year is to change myself in this way: when i see an idiot(s)(idiotic thoughts, ways of communicating with others, a/whores) - dont talk(reply) to him(them).
What about you ?
My "dream" if i can say dream is this :
1 - Finish learning JAVA object-oriented programming ( i already made my first aplication , a GUI , import data from a mysql server , send email after only 2 months of learning) .
2 - Do some projects for the firm i work for ( not at the IT department right now). I already talked with the general manager , already done some IT-related stuff , i'm just waiting to be sure i can manage in a IT position.
3 - Raise money , about 5.000Euros so i can go to New Zealand , stay there for about 2 months and spam all jobs sites with my CV ....
4 - If posible get my viza and move to New Zealand until 1 jan 2011.
Anyway , if all of this does not happen in 2010 i'm very very sure that it will happen until december 2011 :D. What i'm not sure is if i will have the will to stay alive in this hell-hole until then :D .
I hope all of you'r wishes come true .
By the way , I am NOT going to quit smoking . Smoking is one of the things i like most .
Nothing is like a smoke in the morning .
Coffe is LIQUID SHIT if you don't have a smoke.
Nothing calmes you more than a good smoke .
I love it , actually i'm smoking like now.
I LOVE SMOKING
Smoking can kill , take care
02/01/2010 13:03My only resolution is to not crash my truck into any more innocent children.
02/01/2010 15:00hazard you're really dumb arent you? i basically told in my posts that if i want to change something in my life i dont need to wait for some stupid new year to come to achieve that goals, i just take a random day of a year and start there. if you cant do that and you wait all the year to the end to do so, i just feel sorry for you
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