Internet personality vs real
Hi, pizza and I have recently had some not-something-special conversation and we had that interesting thought that was brought up accidentally as we were breeding gossips about some individuals. In the light of acts of some guys in this community you ask yourself whether the person fakes his personality or if he is like this naturally. I don't feel the need to say that a good part of internet community developed them selves new personalities in virtual world and that personalities differ from reals. Although the main question here I wonder about is if your possibly faked virtual personality can actually reflect your real life and not vice versa. To the point where maybe you get angrier at moments where you wouldn't be normally or the other way around when you feel more confident in real life because of the things you have achieved in internet that no many have. Or even, if you're a kind dude irl but for some reason act weirdly and offensively on internet, do you per chance become that irl too?
You get it. Discuss.
your irl personality is the "basics" u start with online, if you act differently online its either cuz u a) got a low selfesteem or b) you wanna make ppl rage.
wanting to make ppl rage indicates some serious problems with your irl personality atl
Imo If a person doesn't have a sense of achievement in their real life it's easy to lose themselves in a virtual world where they can get a false sense of accomplishment. So their personality changes but only "virtually"
Lets take KZ as an example. We were all new in this game at some point. But as time went on and players got better and some newbie came to this scene. Players who already "achieved" something ( already beat some wrs, were known over the site ) they started to look from "above" at the beginners. Its not happening only kz but also in reallife tho.
The real problem with these "two personalities" real-life vs internet-life is that imo people feel more superior on the internet. Only a handful of people would say exactly the same things if they are confrontated with the same people in real life.
People do not change even if they want to, even if they should. Only their behaviour changes based on some circumstances.
from my own experience I can say that when I'm in bad mood or angry/depressed I can be rude/unfriendly in real life and so on internet but I can hide it better and try to be nice online , but otherwise I'm always trying to be just same as irl tho helpful , talkative and friendly to people
but clearly there are lots of "internet heroes" those little kids trying to act cool over internet and beating everyone's face with keyboard letters :D pretty funny most of time though
"Faked" personallity are often just an "exacerbate" version of someone.
People have their own image of themself, and want to be a better one on internet, because they have more influence on that image than in real life.
I think, people who are really different IRL are rare, and are most of the time manipulative people, who just want to feel good with themself and not create any link with people, because it's internet and most of us will never met anyway.
And I don't think it's necesseraly bad, Internet should be first a place to chill and feel good, and if this work for them, that's fine.
But most of the time, people are the same on internet than IRL.
Internet is just more platonic. So relationship are distorded.
atl is the best example. rl fgt = internet fgt. :) bye.
^ said the ugly fuck whos got a hentai animated emo pic.
go cut urself some more, its overdue ;)
pls always the same responses :) u mad bruh and u cannot life one day without making a new account on xj.
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i guess its a little more complex than just online behaviour vs. irl as internet is a huge space where each place has its own rules. when the rules change, people’s behavior will most likely change as well.
if you take for example an image board where people can post anonymously such as 4chan. there are basically no rules in there and people can pretty much act however they want, with complete “freewill” if you will. what it’s interesting to notice, it’s that most of the people actually behave the same. they all use the same memes, call ppl’s name with the same words (n-word, f-word, c-word), etc… so despite the pseudo freewill this website provides to its users, they all act the same. there’s no individual, there’s just a group. you do what the group does. that’s what you would call ‘gregariousness’. so i guess it would be very hard to draw any conclusion on someone’s personality posting in such place.
a forum like XJ is different i guess. you have a nick, a personality, a history. history based on the different posts you’ve written whether they were about yourself (i.e personal info) or gave your opinion on a specific topic. obviously, that doesn’t prevent someone from lying about himself but then again people lie all the time in real life too. so i think you can read someone to some extent based on what he writes on a forum like this one. i'd like to think that people don’t act that differently here than they do in real life.
finzer is a pig
I'm god
it's just easier for people to say what they're actually thinking online than it is in real life because they don't have to worry about how someone will react if they disagree with them or get offended. you can almost get a better feel for a persons true personality online because they're not as reserved.
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